Paddle out

The service for Andy Irons, a champion surfer raised here on Kauai is happening today. He died two weeks ago alone in a Texas hotel room from a drug overdose that was complicated with Dengue Fever illness he was self medicating.  My husband left early to go up and get a spot in the “paddle out” which is the Hawaiian version of a memorial service. Normally ashes are strewn into the surf which that person loved, while family and friends circle on their boards in solemn ceremony – and then try to catch a "big one" into the shore to honor the departed. Today there are 15 foot swells in Hanalei, thousands of people that didn't know Andy, like my husband and some that did, like my friend Linda and her sons who have surfed with him. Andy, held a Keiki surf contest every year for the kids on Kauai - to give back to the community that raised him up to world class surfing status. His  end was sad and tragic as are all endings that are a result of substance abuse and the not always successful struggle to over-come it. As with all professional athletes, those at the top of surfing are at risk to the temptations of success, the parties, the access to what ever can destroy character, and life. He was a short-lived hero and I am sorry he is gone.

YouTube - In loving memory of Andy Irons

This is a picture of the paddle out they had in Puerto Rico the day after he died. Andy Irons had to leave a contest there early due to his illness. He was too sick to fly back to Kauai and complete the last leg of his filght home, which is why he was in the Texas hotel.

Questions questions!

My son Sol is off to Mahalepu beach for a birthday party for some fellow 7 year olds, the Hendrickson twins. He made breakfast in bed for his sick sister this morning. Last night he said, “I love you Luna, Goodnight” as he headed off to bed. Where does his sweet little heart come from? “A re-accounting of the day he was born was made this morning on the trip up the hill to Luna’s school for her group picture with her singing group, “The Sunshine Express”. Her head was warm, and she had the obvious signs of a bad cold – but these Saturday AM practices are somewhat mandatory, and today was picture day for all the publicity photos. So there she was in the back row – looking less that wonderful, bravely smiling – waiting for the last flash so she could exit the bleachers and duck out.

So on our way up there, Sol wanted to hear again about the day he was born and the usual questions. “Did you want another kid?” “Did you want both of us?” “What did I look like?” “Which house did we live in?” “Did you cry when the other babies died inside your tummy?” “Were you excited when we were born? Were you happy? . . . .

My daughter asks the same questions, or has. The accounting, the value assessments, the order of things biological, the prayers, the things that eventually formed our family – and them, my little people, my children.

My daughter Luna likes to climb high in the Banyan tree in our back yard and belt out self-crafted tunes that are a mix of Sarah Brightman and Ethel Merman. The tree seems to camouflage her normal shyness and the songs get louder as the usual hour-long concert ticks by. She is 10 years old now and just became qualified to wear deodorant about two months ago. She stopped wearing skirts and dresses a year ago because they are a hindrance for climbing trees, and running after the chickens. Climbing down from the tree, Luna opens her plastic tub labeled “chicken accessories” and selects from an assortment of fabric and trim remnants with a few gemstones – to indulge the only girly interest she has in fashion – dressing chickens. We are supplied with spontaneous fashion shows when inspiration hits, and megabytes on my computer of images documenting the spring, summer and fall poultry collections that clucked down the runway. Below is Penguin the roosters Halloween costume, he was a stallion. What the picture does not show is the gecko in the saddel "cup" who is riding this amazing steed.

Penguin was just one of the 5 chickens in costume that day.

One day last spring when I came upon her with my little point and shoot camera, I asked her “Luna, what are you dong?” She replied “I am taking pictures of the chickens so I can remember what a wonderful childhood I had”.  The moment distilled in my mind the pile of tossed efforts I had made to insure her “happy childhood”. The dance lessons, art lessons, and the two ponies I bought for she and her brother. I grew up in with horses and assumed by genetic providence my children would also require them. After two years of hay burning lawn ornaments, the ponies were sold. When they were loaded up by their new owner to be driven away – I was the only one in the driveway waving tearfully. The kids were playing with their free chickens they had found, too busy, too happy, to say good-bye.

Oddly Luna was the only Avatar person on our block for Halloween - and I had been worried she'd feel so generic this Halloween.

Nov 10, 2010

Chickens. What has my life come to? Really!

In a former life I would have blogged about a random act of humanitarianism I might have witnessed on Market street, an interesting conversation I had with a old socialite on a park bench in North beach, perhaps a fascinating art show or display at a museum. Maybe a page about the angst of single-to long –girl-in-city syndrome, painful pumps, or how it felt to say “my husband” the first time. I could wistfully wax on about the low moan of the fog horns that gave me a sense of place as I fell asleep at night, or I could go on and on about the struggle to explain homelessness to myself and how I ever managed to walk past a human being hungry on the street, daily.

But that was then, this is now.

I live on Kauai, a green speck in a big blue ocean. The most remote island on earth, except we do have an airport and a steady stream of Aloha clad tourist that sustain us after the demise of the sugar industry. Far removed from anything remotely sophisticated I now muse to my embarrassment – OFTEN- about the latest antics of my children’s chickens.  My children were spawned on Kauai, two feral creatures with sharply honed hunting skills leaving few geckos and lizards on our property untouched by human hands. Catch and release is the sport of choice, though not always releasing them with their tails intact.

At 5:30 in the morning it is apparent why Kauai is such a special place. The cacophony of roosters belt out their territorial “Marco Polo”-game of crowing the day into existence. Similar to the cows in India – they live a charmed life of wandering the beaches and parks for leftover picnic scraps, or dining on dog and cat food left out in neighborhoods, without the threat of becoming a picnic them selves. Their territories are staked out and they stand vigil along the roads, the paths, the jungles even, waiting for opportunity and for feathered challengers while they busily point their tail feathers skyward eating bugs they have carefully kicked out from undergrowth and leaves.

And so it begins.